Sunday, March 18, 2018
I Call Myself A Poet
I call myself a poet.
I think I've earned the right, and, enough other people have granted me that appellation, that I'm comfortable with it.
Am I a good poet?
That's always going to be a matter of opinion...as is any other adjective you put in front of the word, "poet".
I think a majority of people are poets at some point, or points, in their lives.
Since I've started posting poetry and comments online, I've more than once had someone write me saying they wish that they could write poetry. I admit, it can be difficult to get the thought down just the way you want it to sound...or close enough.
However, often, in writing back and forth to these people, I will get a message, especially from those who desire with all their hearts to speak truth or beauty, a simple message in their own words... a message that simply sings and soars.
I have, whenever this happened, and, it's happened more than once, pointed out that what they wrote was poetry.
Most spotted it, once I pointed at it, and most were surprised at their own ability.
Even if the words don't come, nothing says you are NOT a poet, if you ever told someone, from your heart, that you love them...child, partner, parent. If you've ever looked at a sunrise or sunset, a tree, or a bird and felt yourself filled with wonder, you're a poet. You just haven't "written" your poem yet.
Saturday, March 17, 2018
Poem: Love Unspoken
I often say, "I love you",
Without you hearing,
Without a sound,
Without an action...
I say, "I love you",
So many times each day,
In so many ways...
In dreams, and hopes,
And songs sung loud,
Or just thought...
In images, and art, and poetry,
And all the sights and sounds,
Of ordinary days,
You hear me say, "I love you",
If you could ever hear,
All the love unsaid,
The sound would be wonderful,
So, sometimes, I leave...
Monday, March 12, 2018
Poem: The Weight of Words
Hangs suspended over us,
Pushing minds with impetus given,
By the weight of words.
Iron words, gossamer words,
Weights shifting with the swing,
And tempo of time and history.
Gathering and defining humanity, and
Knowledge, belief, misconception,
Truth, difficult to interpret in time.
Limned and lighted at each moment,
Sliding and shifting upon that
Pedantic pendulum, given impetus,
By the weight of words.
7 March 2018
Sunday, March 11, 2018
Mom's 100th Birthday
It was an experience.
I can use a lot of adjectives, and many fit. Fill in whatever pops into your mind.
Yes, an experience, and something to write about in itself, but, I came back with other thoughts as well.
My sister has four daughters, who, between them, have given HER seven grandchildren...all quite intelligent, attractive, active, and competent in many areas. They take after her, not me, apparently.
Anyway, I seldom get to see all of them, and, even upon this auspicious occasion, several could not attend. However, stories abounded and there was much laughter, often at the expense of whomever was NOT present.
Still, it was all quite loving and good natured.
Some of the stories I knew. Some I had not heard, but understood because I knew the people...nieces, grandnieces, and grandnephews.
As much as I DID enjoy all of these, there were moments when I was NOT part of the party. Not that they shut me out, just...I had not been there at some historic, often hilarious, moment well remembered by others.
However, as we celebrated, my mom's, their grandma's or great grandma's, 100th birthday, stories were told, jokes were made, and we teased each other.
Good memories, past and at the moment.
Build memories while you can.
You'll want them later.
Sunday, February 25, 2018
You Cannot Pour From An Empty Pitcher Nor Drink From An Empty Well
The message being that YOU need to fill and nourish yourself first, in order to share caring and loving with others.
That's a good thought.
I like it.
I believe it.
Your first duty is to yourself, but, if not out of selfishness, then out of the knowledge that to be the giver, instead of the taker, you have to have something to give.
A lot of us feel we don't have much to give. Maybe we even just operate on the belief that, since we don't have much of anything, and nothing we can "spare", all we CAN do is take.
Even apparently empty pitchers, and empty wells, often have a little bit left in them, even if just a drop or two.
I know most of us don't want to give the last that we have, but, when it's time, maybe that's all we will have left. If we can keep something in the pitcher to share, we should do so. We should try NOT to let it, our pitcher, our well, get down to just the dregs.
Who wants to share dregs, or have to accept them, for that matter.
Once the pitcher, or well, is empty, that's all we've got.
But, before we get to "empty", maybe we need to fill ourselves back up so that we will have some good wine, tea, life, love...to share...whatever fills us up...and someone who need "it"...whatever it may be.
Monday, February 05, 2018
Even Leaders Have To Learn
In the army, an officer is a leader. A lieutenant is an officer...a very junior one, the first officer rank in the army A "butter bar", a 2nd Lieutenant, who wears a single gold bar to designate his rank, is the lowest of the low, among officers.
Enlisted men, not officers, love to tell stories about green 2LT's.
When I was beginning basic combat training, Fort Jackson, South Carolina, in 1967, I was assigned, one night, to buff an office floor.
There was a brand new 2LT still in the office, supervising us. I had never used a buffer before, and, despite his attempts to show me how to use it, I never quite got the hang of it.
By the time, after several attempts to demonstrate the technique of buffing a floor, he gave up in frustration, there was only a little bit left to do anyway, and he went ahead and did it....while I watched.
If he stayed in the army, and survived, as this was the Vietnam War era, and 2LT's did not have a good life expectancy, he may have wound up a General.
I hope he learned something that night.
I know I did.
If it has to be done and you won't or can't do it, maybe somebody else will. Husbands do this all the time.
I wonder if he learned that if you cannot teach, or encourage, or lead others to do something that needs to get done, you may end up doing it yourself.
Don't know if either of those lessons is valuable, but they are facts, and one of use learned something that night.
Thursday, February 01, 2018
Hey Sarge! I Just Waxed That!
The upstairs, and downstairs, was an open area, known as a squad bay, with rows of double-decker bunks down either side. The center floor, between the rows of bunks, was, I guess, 20 feet wide, maybe more, maybe less.
The important thing for this story is that it was waxed and buffed to a high gloss every day, and no "trainee" was allowed to walk on it.
Shortly after that was brought to our attention, Drill Sergeants walked in, in combat boots, down the middle of that glossy floor.
We waxed and buffed it.
They walked on it.
If we walked on it, we got in trouble...not just from them, but, from our fellow soldier...er...trainees, as Master Sergeant Alosio would remind us...not yet soldiers.
That simple, shared task, and seeming abuse, was one of the beginnings of teamwork...of brotherhood.
Years later, as a Sergeant, many years and lots of experience away from the young basic trainee, I, myself, was on the training staff at an army academy.
I walked into the barracks, down the middle of the squad bay, with students watching me, knowing that they were sighing, but, not really angry. They knew the drill.
I knew too, that after I left they would get out the wax and the buffer, and work together to fix what i had just messed up with my combat boots.
I smiled inside. That part of my job was done.
They knew what to do.